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Tuesday, August 14, 2007
CLUBB FAMILY UPDATE

Here we are again at our monthly update time! Ainsley has now been home with us for four whole months. Hearing it in that respect (four months) sounds like such little time, but our life with her (and with Griffin) feels as if we've always known them…yet in other ways it feels like just yesterday David was boarding the flight to China to bring our daughter home while Shannon stayed home to care for a 3 week old baby! It is amazing how much can change in these little lives in such a short time.

This past month (July 14-August 14) has been full of adventure as we continued to be out and about with the kids as much as possible, enjoying the summer weather and taking advantage of local events and activities. Our major adventure was our first trip outside of the USA with Ainsley and Griffin (more details below). We are becoming more and more at ease incorporating the kids into our active lifestyles. And Griffin and Ainsley actually seem to love being on the go and exploring new places and new schedules rather than having the same routine all the time. With that said, however, there certainly are times when this is not the case and we do have “meltdowns.” But those are few and far between, so we feel very lucky that both kids seem to be very flexible and adaptable as they fit into our often times less than routine lifestyle.

Ainsley (16 months old) continues to surprise us with how well she is adjusting to life in the US and in the Clubb family (both of which are quite a culture shock we are sure!). She loves her little brother, Griffin, and has transitioned from a love/hate relationship with our dog, Bosco, into one that is mostly love. She continues to surprise us with how many different and unique foods she will eat, but she also does have a few moments from time to time when she seems to shut down and get a little more picky. She loves the swimming pool and being outside in the sun. She is talking more and more (and actually becoming understandable - not just babble). Some of her new words are:

baby;
bye bye (and waves);
thank you;
cheers (and clinks glasses);
yeah;
c'mon (and pats her leg like when we are
calling our dog, Bosco); and
Bosco (which sounds more like “Buh”).

Even more interesting is how she comprehends certain things. She definitely understands us when we speak to her. Any time we say Griffin needs a diaper change, she runs to the place we keep the diapers and gets all the essentials for a diaper change out of the cabinet! She is becoming quite the mother's helper. Besides “helping” with the diaper changes, she constantly gives Griffin his toys, puts things back when we ask her to, helps open the door when we need to take Bosco outside…and the list goes on and on.

Griffin (5 months old) is becoming such a little boy in every way. He is looking more and more like a toddler (though he is not there yet, of course) and less and less like a tiny baby. He is so cute! He is quite aware of his surroundings - smiling and laughing all the time. He rolls over from his back to his belly regularly now and is scooting around all over the floor exploring new toys. We now almost always find him on his belly when he wakes up in his crib. He LOVES watching Bosco. He will just sit and smile at Bosco and lean over trying to touch him. It is so cute. He is also still very entertained by his big sister and enjoys watching her run around and play. While we love each new stage of his development, it is hard to know we will never see him as that tiny little newborn baby anymore. He is becoming a little kid! We're probably going to start him on solid foods (in addition to continuing to nurse) in mid-September, which is exciting but also kind of sad to Shannon who has been his only source of nourishment since birth.
 

Turks & Caicos…We Survived & Thrived (and actually had fun!)

Our trip to Beaches Turks & Caicos Resort & Spa was wonderful! While it was certainly different traveling with a 4-month old and 15-month old, it was not a bad experience at all. Since we have traveled extensively already, we kind of have our standard operating procedures in place in terms of packing, getting to the airport, going with the flow in foreign countries, etc., so we just tried to integrate the kids into that as well. This seemed to work just fine. There were some challenging moments (primarily on the trip back), but nothing major at all. Of course, we were lucky to be upgraded to first class, so that helped a lot in terms of extra space, more attention from the flight crew, etc.

The time in Turks & Caicos was a great time especially for David to spend some concentrated time with Griffin and Ainsley. He has really missed seeing them as much since he has been back to work.

Our days mostly followed a similar pattern where we got up, played with the kids a little bit for some morning fun, got dressed (daily outfit = bathing suit!), put on the sunscreen, and headed out the door for breakfast. (Getting ready to head out the door took a little longer than usual since we had to deal with putting lotion on everyone, dealing with diapers and swimmy diapers, etc.) Ainsley loved the breakfast buffets, where she enjoyed everything, including fresh fruit, yogurt, chocolate chip pancakes, waffles, eggs. After breakfast, we then got some seats either at the beach or at one of the pools and basically camped out there all day until sunset or close to sunset every night, taking a break to grab some lunch at one of the many restaurants at the resort. We spent our days playing in the pool, playing in the sand, swimming, reading, enjoying the swim-up pool bars, playing with the kids, taking pictures, taking naps, etc.

Both Ainsley and Griffin were great about taking naps wherever we were. If we were at the pool, Ainsley would just get wrapped up in a towel and sleep on the lounge chair, sometimes for 2 hours or more. Griffin would do the same in his car seat. It was great. They would do this at the pool, on the beach, or wherever! Ainsley loved swimming and would push off the steps as if she was diving over and over again, putting her hands out in front of her and her face in the water. She would intentionally go under water and open her eyes underwater. She really could not get enough of the swimming pools. One night we even took her to the pool after dinner to swim in the dark. The lack of daylight didn't bother her at all. She was ready to go play in the pool. She loved the ocean too (most of the time), including playing in the sand. Griffin loved splashing around in the pool and was content to have water all over his face. He went underwater twice and came up without any fuss. Griffin especially liked being in the pool with Ainsley. And Ainsley felt the same way about Griffin. Sometimes she would not go in the pool unless he would come in too. She would whine and come over and try to take Griffin off our laps. They are already becoming great friends and playmates.

All in all our time was very relaxing. We did not get as much rest or sleep as we used to on trips like this, but it was great to be with the kids and to have someone cooking and cleaning for us all week while we played in the sun and sand and had a blast! We are already planning our next trip somewhere around the world! Stay tuned…

Griffin and Ainsley having a staring contest in the pool


Ainsley enjoying the sand and ocean


Ainsley and Griffin: Beach Bums!


Mommy and Griffin


Naptime at the pool


Daddy and Ainsley playing in the sand


Ainsley trying to get Griffin
to come into the pool to play with her


Ainsley in her private pool


Daddy and Griffin sharing some laughs on the beach


Clubb Family of Four: Turks & Caicos 2007
 
Our trip was certainly the highlight of this past month, but there were many other milestones and highlights as well. There are too many to mention all of them, but following are a few:

OTHER HIGHLIGHTS


First Date Night for David and Shannon! We were finally comfortable enough to leave Ainsley and Griffin with someone while we enjoyed a night out - the first since Ainsley joined our family. Shannon's mom watched the kids during one of her visits to Pittsburgh while David and Shannon took the night to enjoy dinner and share a bottle of wine that David had purchased for Shannon after Griffin was born. We went to a cute little restaurant called Tomato Pie Café just outside of North Park near our house in the suburbs of Pittsburgh. It was a great night and we are looking forward to many more dates together so we can keep our marriage a priority which will in turn make us better parents.

Griffin Cut His First Two Teeth! It is hard to believe our baby already has teeth! Most babies get their first teeth around seven months (on average) and our boy got his first bottom two just after turning 4 months old. We had one pretty cranky afternoon, but other than that, we haven't experienced too many teething issues yet. We're now waiting on the top four teeth to come through.

Weight Check! Griffin and Ainsley had their doctor checkups this past month and it is always interesting to see how close they are in weight and height considering Ainsley is 11 months older. On this occasion, Ainsley weighed 19 lbs, 2 ounces and Griffin weighed only 4 ½ pounds less at 14 lbs, 8 ounces! They were also only 3 ½ inches different in height. Little Ainsley is going to be a petite little girl, coming in at 5% on the weight charts and 20% for height. Griffin is going to soon become her “big” little brother - 50% on the weight charts and 75% for height!


We're looking forward to things slowing down a bit in September as we settle into autumn and move out of summer mode. We have always enjoyed the beautiful seasons in Western Pennsylvania with the fall foliage, pumpkins, and hikes in the park - and now we're even more excited to share in these things with our children (David just wishes they were already old enough to help him rake the leaves!).

We'd love to hear from you and how your families are doing. Keep us posted and let us know if you will be passing through the great city of Pittsburgh any time soon or if you want to tag along with us on our next adventure - tentatively a trip to somewhere in Mexico in October, and tentatively a trip to Barcelona, Spain in December (part business trip for David and the other part family fun for everyone) - just let us know (we would love a few babysitters - HA!).

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